Yeah I don’t get this at all. I grew up with 5 grandparents. And while I do consider my grandpas wife my “step” grandma (i am VERY close with my I love it when she swallows my worm fishing vintage shirt mom that I just don’t see my grandpas next wife in the way way) she is still a grandma to me.
And my moms husband, is just my moms husband. They married when I was 18 and I have no real familial attachment to him. BUT IF I HAVE KIDS HES STILL THEIR GRANDPA. He’s a nice enough guy, and he will be far more in their than my dad (my dads in a different state) that it would be cruel to both my child and my mom ms husband to say “you have a grandpa and it’s not this man”. The more love you can give a child the better… just because she isn’t blood doesn’t mean she isn’t family, and it sounds like they’ve had a good relationship this long. OP is absolutely YTA. Unnecessarily cruel
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